Change

Assalamualaikum wbt


" being well rounded person"


Although the sentence are lingering in my mind and soul since the first time i steps my foot in Ireland



Ideal

Life, is persue of finding ourselves. A good one. But where do we look for?

Some will look at other people.

when we see a person we tend to wanted to be like them. We tend to say this is the excellent one. But when we look at a different person, again our heart would speak this one what the society want and this is what i would like to be.

But there will never be a person that you can be


Can every quality be in one person?

The answer is too idealistic.



Expectation

People live with expectation from others.
say their father, teacher, the older generation, our sponsor,

Others wanted to them to be an excellent student
how excellent?
Being excel in studies,
being global thinker on knowing what is happening around the world
Being political awareness,
Being know of the policy of the health service.
being know of the human right.
everything




Conflict

So often, i tend to find disappointment in myself

when we try to change ourself,
when we look at other people
we will have a conflict in ourself
which type of person should i be

When we take one person as an example
and we try to FOLLOW that person
conflict arise when we then see that there is another person who you would like to be
And this prevoius person you see is not the ideal one

sounds so teenagers,
with personality conflict


Change

BUT i believe now its time to change

Yes, it's time to change.

No longer living with other's expectation
set our own expectation of ourself

We create what kind of person we would like to be in front of Allah
in front of society

And we work it from there.
From now

Because there is no ideal example in this world
ANYMORE

He have long leave us


a person can never be an example
But the value that the person have is the example

Like when you are doing math
the example is being given
You can choose to memorize the solution without knowing the basic or reason behind the calculation
Or you can understand the logic behind the calculation

Because when we are given a different question
that example is no longer valid
but the process of calculation is what reliable


And i learn
That the goal we set is not only in this world
Because this world is so short
When you achived it, you will stop afterwards
it should be beyond that

So if we want to be a person
Be a person with Allah expectation
Thus you will continue developing youself being a perfect
not through the human eyes,
but through Allah's eyes





So can everything be in one person?

yes
And that person is you

You will never find yourself in others
You can only find yourself in you

Find the value in others
and harvest it in you
Because you cannot be like others
but you can be like the value they have